How to get Simplicity in life

Simplicity isn't easy thing. In amidst of crisis and transition from one job to other or place, someone has to decide to simplify his life, get rid of the junk and focus on what he wanted to do. He is not all the way there yet, but he is heading in the right direction. In the end, it just took four simple, but difficult and bold steps.

1. Develop a life philosophy. Before you make any major (or even minor) transition in your life, you need to know why you're changing your life. You need a purpose. You need a prioritization system.You need a life philosophy, a distilled set of principles that reflect your values.To understand your values is to understand how you want to spend your time. Different people have different life philosophies.                                                 Some value family and quality time with their spouses and children. Others prefer friends or work. Unless your value system involves mass murders, your values aren't any better or worse than others. Your life philosophy is a statement of what makes you happy and gives you purpose in life.                                                   It's not something to be taken lightly. Personally, my purpose in life is to connect with others peoples. That's my first priority. That's my life philosophy. I also care about my friends, family and the world, but whenever I must make a choice, I'll usually choose writing.                                                                                                                                     
2. Divide up your tasks into must-dos and want-dos, and eliminate everything else. You have to do some things even if it doesn't fit into your life philosophy, like pay bills, eat and sleep. These are necessary things that you can't avoid.On the other hand, you have your want-dos, the things that you love doing when you're not paying your bills, calling your mom or dad, and fixing the garbage disposal.                                         Accomplishing the must-dos makes it possible for you to have time and space to achieve your want-dos. After all, it's hard to write that novel you've always wanted to write if you're constantly fighting the IRS and a roach infestation. Everything else? Junk them. They're a waste of your time. Yes, I'm talking about looking at LOLCat pictures! (Unless, of course, you want your life purpose to be 'looking at LOLCats and giggling ... unless, of course that is part of your life philosophy and you want some levity.)                                                                                    
3. Reduce clutter, both physical and mental. Clutter is more than untidiness. It's superfluity. It's excess. With unnecessary things piling up in our homes, offices and minds, simplicity becomes impossible.                                     
4. Go on an information diet. We live in a wonderful world where information is no longer the exclusive domain of the wealthy, the educated and the privileged. That Internet has democratized information to such a degree that anyone with an Internet connection can look up almost anything. But that doesn't mean that we should look up everything. The sheer amount of information available has led to data bloat.                         Information is presented in such a way where the unimportant is equally accessible as the important. It's easy to forget that it takes time to consume the information, time that could be better spent elsewhere. This is where your life philosophy becomes crucial. Think about what kind of information will advance your life philosophy (will it make you a better parent? A better friend? A better thinker? A better worker?) If the answer is no, don't read it. Turn off the monitor or phone and do something more useful. Two years ago, I used to read all of the political and news outlets.                                                                                                                 I knew what was going on in Sudan as well as I knew what was going on down the street. I felt like I needed to be up-to-date with world affairs to be a good person. Except...well, the data didn't help me achieve my goal of writing a book. In fact, it distracted me from my goal. So, I simply stopped reading news outlets, perusing blogs and watching news programs.                                                                                                       You know what? I'm far happier now. I focus on what I care about--writing and storytelling. Now that my mind isn't occupied by yet another scandal, I have time to read and write. Yes, I'm not the most well inform person, but now I have time and energy to create, not just consume. Some people's values will drive them to consume news. That's cool, but it's just not my value system. (I do hope, however, that these people let me know if the apocalypse is coming.)

                            10 Amazing Psychology Facts

Psychology and philosophy were considered branch of studies that were together. In 1870s Psychology became an independent stream of studies and has advanced a lot. But yet there is a lot of dig deep into it. Here are few amazing Psychology facts that to share.

1) Do not announce your goals. Because you are likely to lose motivation of achieving them.
2) You favorite song is associated with you best life event.
3) Spending money on others makes you happy.
4) Spending money on experience makes you happier than possessing thing.
5) People are becoming more anxious and depressed every decade.
6) With earning more than of $75000 per year, money just become “stuff”.
7) Stress and happiness are both contagious.
8) People between 18 and 33 are the most stressed.
9) Intelligent people underestimates them while ignorant people behaves brilliantly.
10) Music can change the way we see the world.

                                Those are the best days of my LIFE...!
Before coming to my point, i wanted to tell you small story. A cruise ship met with an incident at sea, on the ship was a pair of couple, after having made their way to the lifeboat, they realized that there was only space for one person left.

At this moment, the man pushed the woman behind him and jumped onto the lifeboat himself.
The lady stood on the sinking ship and shouted one sentence to her husband.
The teacher stopped and asked, "What do you think she shouted?"
Most of the students excitedly answered, "I hate you! I was blind!"
Now, the teacher noticed a boy who was silent throughout, she got him to answer and he replied,
"Teacher, I believe she would have shouted - Take care of our child!"
The teacher was surprised, asking "Have you heard this story before?"
The boy shook his head, "Nope, but that was what my mum told my dad before she died to
disease".

The teacher lamented, "The answer is right".
The cruise sunk, the man went home and brought up their daughter single handedly. Many years later after the death of the man, their daughter found his diary while tidying his belongings.

It turns out that when parents went onto the cruise ship, the mother was already diagnosed with a
terminal illness. At the critical moment, the father rushed to the only chance of survival.
He wrote in his diary, "How I wished to sink to the bottom of the ocean with you, but for the
sake of our daughter, I can only let you lie forever below the sea alone".
The story is finished, the class was silent.

The teacher knows that the student has understood the moral of the story, that of the good and
the evil in the world, there are many complications behind them which are hard to understand.
Which is why we should never only focus on the surface and judge others without understanding
them first.
Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value
friendship above money.
Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but because they
understand the concept of responsibility.
Those who apologizes first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value
the people around them.
Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they
see you as a true friend.
Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are
in their heart.

One day, all of us will get separated from each other; we will miss our conversations of
everything & nothing; the dreams that we had. Days will pass by, months, years, until this
contact becomes rare... One day our children will see our pictures and ask 'Who are these
people?' And we will smile with invisible tears because a heart is touched with a strong word and
you will say: 'Those are they best days of my life'.